Things you do not know about me "Pauline Barnabas"

So many people judge me the way they see me and the way they want me to be. But there are so many things that people do not know about me because of one big reason. I have got very few close friends and l try to keep my personal life very private.

l always keep my private life because l am an independent woman and l am not scared to face life challenges. Some people think telling people about what you are facing in life helps because it release stress, but to me l feel like l am the only person who can sort out my problems. This is because l discovered that not everyone will like you, your worse enemy is your close friend and your close friend is your worse enemy.

 

I always have few friends because if you have many friends they will not give you time to be alone and do your own thing. l am a person who need a space and l need a person who understand me and give me a space, as l sometimes need to be alone. l believe l need to be me and to make me be me it needs a moment of being alone and think what l want in all steps in the life.

 

l am a person who do not need to know about how other people live, l always say it in non of my business to know what other people do. All in all l am a very nice person to nice people, if you do not like me for any reason l do not care. And the worse thing is, if l know you don't like me l even do not west  time l just leave like you do not existing in this world.

 

 

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I AM HAPPY, AND FOR THAT , I MAKE NO APOLOGIES.

With me what you see is what you get. Yes call me naive, but l love life. I like to see the best in people, and when someone is nice to my face, l tend to believe them. 

l am also happy to say that everyone that l have met in my life, l have gained something from them,either negative or positive. l dont let anyones insecurities, emotions or opinions bother me. l know that if l am happy, thats all that matters to me. l ignore those who choose  to publish their opinions without actually talking to me. Have a blessed wadnesday wote.

THINGS THAT INDEPENDENT WOWAN DON'T DO

Kuwa strong, independent woman si rahisi kwani kuna changamoto nyingi sana.  Ila kifupi ni mwanamke kuwa strong na independent woman. Na ili kuwa strong na independen wowan kuna ambayo unatakiwa kuyafahamu. Nayo ni kama ifuatavyo; 

Strong and independent woman do not neglet their careers. Firstly independent woman have their careers always at the forefront of their lives.  Working hard is something everyone should do. Fanya kazi kwa bidii utaona matunda siku moja.

Independent woman dont fail to handle their own situations. Kitu kimoja cha muhimu zaidi ni kwamba independent woman always handle their own situations iwe ni mbaya ama nzuri.  lndependent woman ufunga mdomo pale anapokuwa na shida ama tatizo kwenye maisha yake badala ya kumueleza kila mtu. 

They do not over react to bad situations or mistakes. They do let the mistakes roll off their backs and to learn from their bad choice. 

They do not rise to the bait of haters. Maadui wapo wengi sana katika maeneo yetu tunayoishi. Lakini huna haja ya kushindana na adui yako. Unatakiwa kushindana naye kwa maendeleo na busara zaidi.

They dont stop learning. Unatakiwa kujifunza zaidi ya unachokijua kwenye taaluma yako.

They also dont let other people affect their confidence. Jipende vile ulivyo na usiruhusu mtu yeyote kukunyima confidence kwa jinsi muonekano wako ulivyo.

La mwisho na la muhimu manaishi maisha yao na hawafanyi kitu ili kumkomoa mtu bali wanafanya kile chenye manufaa kwao. Nawatakia siku njema wote

BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE

Be yourself, hili ndo jambo la muhimu zaidi. kwasababu if you are not you, how can you be proud of yourself? pia usiwe kama watu wanavyotaka uwe just be yourself.

Kuwa na confidence on real achievements and strength. Jikubali na jifanyie angalizo kwa yale mazuri yako na mabaya pia. Hii itasaidia wewe kujitambua ni wapi unahitaji kubadilika. 

Kuwa na confidence, jaribu kupay attention to your strength, your accomplishment and your triumphs. Pia unatakiwa kuwa proud of yourself.  Dont be too proud though, it can easly be confused with arrogance if you show too much pride towards yourseldf.

Pia unatakiwa kuwa na marafiki wanaokupenda na kukuheshimu jinsi ulivyo. 

Jaribu pia ku ignore hateful or mean comments from others if its about how you are.  La mwisho na la muhimu sana ni kujaribu ku understand and accept that sometimes criticism is completely untrue.  Nawatakia siku njema nikisisitiza be proud of who you are but olny in a positive way.

HOW TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST.

Maana ya maisha yako ni kitu unacho creat day after day with your your own actions and thoughts. Kila wakati unatakiwa kujiuliza ni kitu gang unaweza kujifunza, na ni jinsi gani unaweza ku move forward na to stop yourself from blaming other people kama mambo hayataenda sawa kama ulivyotarajia. What living life to the fullest looks like is up to you. Haya yafuatayo yanaweza kukusaidia kuishi maisha yako; 

Tambua kwamba maisha ni safari ndefu, na si mwisho wa kila kitu.

Kuwa muwazi kwako we mwenye na kwa wenzako pia

Jifunze kujikubali wewe mwenyewe na watu wengine watakukubali

Tambua thamani yako

Kuwa tayari kukubali ahangamoto za maisha

Kuwa tayari kubadilika

Jali afya yako

Jifunze kujali mambo ya sasa na kusahau mambo yaliyopita. 

Nawatakia juma tano njema.

I HAVE GOT 100 REASONS TO LOVE MY JOB.

Naipenda sana kazi yangu kuliko kitu chochote,ina changamoto nyingi lakini ina rewards, na wafanyakazi wenzangu are awsome. Ninajifunza kila wakati kutoka kwa watu waliobobea kwenye utalii wa kimataifa. Na kwasababu hii nimekuwa na uhuru wa ku think outside the box and have all thoughts considered. Na kingine kinachonifurahisha ni kuwa na muda wa kufanya biashara zangu ndogo zinazo niongezea kipato zaidi na kunifanya mimi kuwa mimi na si mtu yeyote. Ninachoweza kusema ni kwamba, punde tunapomaliza vyuo vikuu tusifikirie kuolewa kwanza, tujdenge maisha yetu kwanza then tuwe na familia ambazo tutakuwa na uwezo wa kuzihudumia. kuolewa unaweza kuolewa ukiwa na umri wowote, ila fursa hairudi mara mbili hata siku moja. Wanawake tuamle na tusimame kwa miguu yetu miwili kwani tunaweza. Ushauri wangu mie ni hard work pays. Fanya kazi kwa bidii na utaona matunda. Nawapenda sana na muwe na juma tatu njema.

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HARD WORKING WOMEN HOLIDAY

Watu wengi wamekuwa wakiniuliza unajuaje kwamba mtu ni hard working? ki ufupi tu mtu hard working ni yue anaefanya kazi kwa bidii zote na si lazima iwe kazi ya kuajiriwa tu hata kujiajiri mwenyewe ni part of it. Na kama ni mtu unaejiweza ni vizuri pia ukiwa kama muajiriwa wa mahala Fulani haitoshi hiyo peke yake bai ni vizuri kama unaweza kujiongeza. Nikisema kujiongeza namaanisha kuto kutegemea ajira tu bali kujaribu pia kuwa mjasiriamali pia hata kama ni kabiashara kadogo ni bora kuliko kutokuwa nayo kabisa. Pamoja na kuwa na yote hayo ni vizuri pia mwanamke chapakazi uwe ni mtu unaejua ku Save ama kwa Kiswahili sanifu uwe unajua kuweka akiba pia. Manake si kila siku ni siku ya asali, kuna kipindi mambo yanaweza kubadilika gafla na kama ni mtu wa kujiwekea akiba basi mambo yako yatakuendea poa na hakuna atakaejua mambo yako si poa. Kwahiyo basi mwanamkw unatakiwa kuwa chapakazi ama kitaalamu zaidi wanasema (Hard working woman), ujue kujiongeza, kujiwekea akiba, na pia usijibane sana ni lazima ujipe raha ama nene? Next time ntakuja na topic moja nzuri sana ya jinsi ya kuwa muajiriwa na mjasiria mali at the same time. SO MSIONE KAMA NAKULA BATA SANA, NAJUA PIA KUZITAFUTA NA NDO MAANA NAJUA KUZITUMIA PIA. See you next time.

 

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